Apologise if this post is long- anyhow, according to this site(entjpersonality.info/2010/09 … ility.html): the ENTJ + ENTJ match is:
Has anyone experienced an ENTJ + ENTJ relationship?
The reason I’m asking is that I’ve somewhat accidently encountered such a mysterious creature- and he is someone who can elicit the most emotional responses from my cold wall of defenses; not to mention, his sexual presence is a bit overwhelming, and I find myself losing control a bit, which I find uncomfortable, but at the same time, he excites me and I find myself thinking about him all the time.
The rational part of me is a skeptic and thinks of all the worse case scenarios, and that possibly, love is a mental disease aka Plato, but I feel seduced- mentally, at least, as there haven’t been any physical contact between us, just this space where intensity seems to hover and strike me with paralysis. I’ve been through infatuation before as a youth, and I find it difficult to pursue someone I am intensely attracted to, and have always fallen into relationships with best friends with whom I felt no passion, but a comfortable repetoire (these men are usually ENFPs).
So what do you think? Do ENTJ + ENTJ relationships work? As a bit of background, he’s a bit older than I am (although you could never tell because he is athletic and brilliant; and quite frankly I didn’t even think of the age difference at first, only that he was incredibly sexy, and that I wanted his big, strong arms wrapped around me ). He’s the Chair and brain behind his multi-national consulting firm, and lets his CEO do all his bidding, and day-to-day running of business, while he likes to spend time working on creative projects.
I’ve been quite dominating in all of my relationships, but around him, I feel a bit lost- confused, perhaps. Although he brings out that side of me- the more emotional side, and I can’t help but want to take care of him, although I’m fairly certain he is better equipped to take care of me. He said something once which touched me, and he said, “I’ll take care of the big things, you take care of the little things”. I thought it was so sweet. He has such a protective nature.
We’re not entirely identical though- he is interested in sports and hockey- something which I know nothing about, but have an appreciation for. I similarly have a keen interest in vegetarianism, animal rights and political activism, which he doesn’t, but which I know he appreciates or at least tries to understand as well, since they are a part of my interests, despite the fact that he is very much an omnivore and an NRA member.
So I’m not quite sure how I’ve somehow met this incredible, brilliant, sexy ENTJ male.
So what do you think? What have been your experiences with the ENTJ + ENTJ pairing?