My husband is a strong ENTJ and me being a “feeling” type really struggles with his abruptness and bluntness sometimes. I leave our arguments feeling completely defeated, he leaves them and doesn’t think about it again. He is so practical and to the point and I sometimes feel like I’m hitting my head against the brick wall with him because I just want him to relax and be a bit more romantic. He finds mistakes in everything and gets frustrated so easily when things aren’t done perfectly. He does get over things quickly but I’m left picking up the pieces from his blow ups because he can’t self regulate his emotions at all… Something pisses him off and he just loses it. He generally comes back after awhile and apologises but I’m EXHAUSTED.
How do others deal with husbands like this? How do you find is the best way to communicate and get your point across? And how can I let him know that how he speaks and acts sometimes affects me so much?