I agree with ComplexMango, you can not know when you will really fall in love with someone. Life with career only but no love is meaningless. I’m sure that at some point in time, you will feel that despite of how much sucessful in career you are. In fact, once being in a relationship ( i mean in marriage life), you can choose the right time to have baby, and concentrate on your work ( why have to choose one of them while you can handle both by your effort and help from your husband?).
Marriage life is fair now. A model family in my mind is : mutual respect, both parties share duties together, support each other and be the shoulder for the other person to rest on when needed.
I dont think that in this modern life, man wants to have a wife who is totally housewife and he has to bear all the load of making money to affort the whole family. Nor do I think that man likes woman who is totally just concentrate on her work only but doesnt care of the family.
I myself dont mind if i have to do homework and take care of the baby and work at the same time.As being woman, i am sure that all of you girls have maternal instinct that bring love and drive for you to take care of your baby ( by willing) once you have it.If so much work to do, you can hire a babysitter who does the housework and take care of the baby for you if the time you work costs more than the time you pay for the babysitter.
For cooking meals and others: If i do that for my husband, it’s because i LOVE him, and do things for him, not because i HAVE TO.
Well, it’s my point of view. Girls, please share your opinion.