I wonder if there are other female ENTJ that have difficulty dating as I do...
I find most men to be weak, spineless or seriously lacking a pair. Especially in this metro-sexual/dual-income society we live in today. I expect a man to want to produce, create or be the master of something at least as much as I do as a minimum. I mean doesn't everyone want to leave something behind? Whether it's a legacy to the masses or self satisfaction of having lived exactly the way they wanted. We all have that internal inertia that propels us to be obsessive, compulsive and demanding. Maybe that makes ENTJ too serious and no fun but I just don't understand people who lack the drive to live life.
There's nothing worse than sitting across from a man and almost feeling sorry for him because he's such a puss. That's usually when I press "play" autopilot Date #1. I usually do 90% of the talking since the poor bastard is paying for my meal and I feel obligated to at least entertain him. Plus, I have no interest in most of what he has to say about himself. Sad, yes. Arrogant, probably but I already know it's going nowhere. He'll end up nagging and annoying me that I don't spend enough time or don't put him first. His feelings will be hurt and I'll end up loathing his very existence... Instead he laughs his butt off one evening and then we become buddies or I pawn him off to one of my girlfriends. Everyone is happy.
It's one thing for a man to date an attractive woman dumb as rocks with no ambition but it's quite difficult being a woman trying to date a man who isn't par. Am I just too back of the woods chauvinistic? I guess I just don't see a man as a man if I find them weak. What's weak?
It's not like ENTJ or INTJ are any better to date. They're usually just too busy. They need women who nag and demand their time. Needy crazy psychotic biatches who break things and throw fits. It's quite twisted.
So what's worse... Dating someone who annoys you but wants to spend every waking moment together or dating someone who doesn't have time for you?
Sigh... Gotta love being single.
I have to say it was fun ranting. I'm not as jaded as I sound. I just haven't figured it out.