I am an ESFP. There is an ENTJ I like… that’s why I’m here. But I know a E NtJ/ESFP couple. I’ve known them for years, and they get along great and it works great for them. I also know an ENTJ/ESTP couple… there is a little more friction in that one but still a long lasting and stable marriage.
Watching the couple I know… I think they have definitely made each other better. I definitely think they challenge each other to grow in ways they would not have otherwise. I knew the husband years before he met and married her. And I’ve seen her grow and mature over the years. I think they are very patient with each other… they discuss things… they say they never argue. Both entjs and esfps are pretty rational types… (not calling an esfp A Rational… but they can be rational. So if you’re patient with them and explain your point of view… and vice versa… there is a lot to learn there from each other.