Help with ESFJ female


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Hi guys, I’m an ENTJ male and I have had a relationship with an ESFJ for a couple of years now but she does not feel that she loves me anymore due to me not being able to communicate with her as openly as she expects(use of Fe). I know I’m horrible in understanding Fe and my Fi is mostly kept to myself and only surfaces in conjunction with Te leading. She states she likes our similarities but she can’t see our future together. I, on the other hand, have been very happy and hopeful thinking of our future together but now I’m stuck in an Fi grip with no idea how to tackle such a situation. What can I do to explain my situation best and do I have any hopes of her understanding leading to her feelings changing towards me?