I can speak personally about my own ENTJ traits regarding how I prefer to be approached by a male.
#1) I have a very quick scanning process and check-list that I go through. To begin, they would have to be the initiator, I’m too prideful and feel the male should approach me out of respect. He would need to have these qualities first before I even consider saying hello back: Handsome, Well-kept, Classy, Confident.
#2) If those elements are in check, I then proceed to probe to see if they have the other ingredients necessary to keep my attention: Intelligence, Driven, Passionate, Strong, Outgoing, Fun and Adventurous. If they lack any of these qualities (And the majority does) I’m wasting my time (Time is money and money is time…lol) and move on.
Come to think about it, I probably have turned a lot of great men down because of my system…oh well…there’s always better. No sweat off my back! LOL!!!
First of all, someone who text or emails me and cannot spell correctly drives me insane. It shows they are lazy and ignorant, which I’m very intolerant of. Second, I don’t like it when a guy tries to be too intelligent or depth with me in emails or online. I don’t have the patience to get all philosophical online, over a glass of wine is more pleasurable.
Men automatically assume that because I’m intelligent that I’m not a normal person who likes to joke around and have fun. I enjoy the lighter side of life when being pursued, unless as I mentioned, we were on a date and relaxing, then yes, I would enjoy the intelligent, deep conversations.
Furthermore, I have test that they have to pass and if they stick around after all that, the most persistent male (of my choosing) will win me over. His persistent shows me strength and loyalty. =)
Yes, I have to agree, at least on my behalf. I went through a spell here recently where my phone, emails, etc; were always active with men wanting to date me. I finally got fed up because it was draining my energy and I cut everyone off, they had to die. (Pun intended) Bottom line, I realized I was wasting my time because none of the men I was talking too had all of the qualities I mentioned above.
I have to be EVERYTHING too him!!! hehehehe!!!