I got in a relationship a several years ago with an INTJ. At first, I didn’t think the INTJ liked me at all and was irritated by my presence, and only realised this was not the case when she started kissing me at a house party.
I’m interested now in an ENTJ (not with the INTJ anymore). She seems to interact with me much like the above INTJ did… I can only describe it as that she doesn’t seem to overtly enjoy our conversations, and yet she seeks out contact with me. We are only acquaintances. She finds reasons to put herself in my space, and yet when in it she doesn’t seem like she likes me. So I get confused.
She is meant to be coming with me and my friends (who she hasn’t met yet) to an event. I’m surprised she agreed to come. I think her ACTIONS suggest interest, but no interest expressed at all via her words and the way she says them.
I’d love any insight?