I am an ENTJ female. When I was first diagnosed with the ENTJ affliction I was 23. I say affliction because honestly being an ENTJ female is about the most frustrating thing to be!
Men have always been attracted to me, my strength I suppose, but then once they had me they become intimidated and insecure.
I am 40 now and over the years I have tried to calm the beast and work on becoming more emotional and docile, but honestly, I have recently decided screw it, I am what I am and time to embrace it.
I have recently become engaged to an ENFP. You would think we do not get along well, but actually so far it is a perfect match. It helps that I am a Pisces and he is a Leo. I have learned to accept him leaving the cupboard doors wide open and non confrontational ways and he accepts me being large and in charge and lets me handle problems most the time.
My background has varied greatly as has my travel and education. I am naturally an entrepreneur and recently have been afforded the opportunity to write a book which is pretty cool!
My biggest problem is being over confident which I am sure you can tell. It’s just so hard not to be when every time you turn around people are pandering to you and asking you to explain this or that or asking your opinion on this or that and requesting you to lead.
Anyone else here have this problem? I really want to get better in this department.