I like that this forum exists because there are like minded people who understand the challenges of being an ENTJ.
I was recently fucked over by an INTJ, my best friend of 5 years. Turns out he is a pathological liar. So, I destroyed his life. He deserved it.
The question is: how to move on without being obsessed with details? I have so much information that may or may not be true and I really want to know whether it is or not. I enjoy hunting through all the bullshit and discovering the truth.
On one hand, if I didn’t hunt for details, I would not have found out that he was lying to me about the majority of his life. On the other hand, there is some truth to his life, and he is hiding secrets. I don’t like that I trusted this person with my life, my secrets for years and he played me. I would like to uncover more of his secrets, because I can and am smart enough to do so.
So, how to stop with being obsessed with details?