Being a woman and finding a man who will be more successfull andd more dominant than you are. Plus all the things posted before
You don’t sound so successful to me.
This thread is so wonderful to read! I actually hadn’t realized that the “figuring it out in a half second and having. . . to . . . wait. . . forever. . . until . . . everyone . . . else. . .catches . . . up” was an ENTJ thing.
I figured out 15 years ago, or so that there was a discrepancy in the amount of time it took me versus everyone else, so I started waiting 30 seconds or so before spitting out the answer, to give other people a chance to respond. And then I finally realized that 30 seconds wasn’t long enough. People were hours behind. So, then you have to figure out how to handle THAT. And each situation requires something different. Sometimes I spit out the answer (sometimes people are desperate for leadership and actually ANNOYED when you don’t lead), sometimes I tune out until everyone else catches up, sometimes I carefully lead everyone along the path to the answer I figured out immediately.
Right now I am in the process of a whole 3 month plan at work to solve a problem that I already know the answer to. But part of the problem we are solving is that certain people have felt left out of decision making. . . so I have to solicit a lot of input before we end up exactly where I know we’re headed.