Where can one find ENTJ males?


#1

I'm highly interested in meeting more ENTJ males, but I don't know where to look, or, perhaps more accurately, where to place myself so that they can find me.
I already know one ENTJ male, but his caliber is not sufficient for my tastes. Any suggestions?


#2

School, work, gym.

Sorry if this is too obvious of an answer. We can be found places where we can pursue our goals.


#3

I agree. Shopping Malls and Stores don't hold our interest because we go in there knowing what we want. You'd me most likely to find ENTJs in places where they can do something productive to their end for a long period of time. School, I believe is a good option. College courses that have a high percentage of males, or a quota... Like you'd be more likely to find me taking a nursing course, since it's challenging and I'm slightly ambitious. If not school, then... In a social scene I'd look at... perhaps a bar or club. ENTJs are more likely to be the "life of the party." As in, they'll be the ones who bring a couple friends, and try to get them to dance and do belly-shots. They probably won't be the center of attention at the club as a whole, but among their friends, you might find that they're the most active. At least that's the case for me. It could be that all my friends are just downers and dead-beats, but only time will tell!

Good luck!


#4

Politics is my hot tip :sunglasses:


#5

All great examples...however to break it down even more simply: anytime you see the "loud one" of any group, chances are you've found one of us ENTJ's. Our roles may vary, but we're easy to recognize.

I mean...many of my friends are ENTJ's. They (like me) tend to be attracted to the parties, the big gatherings and whatnot (as said earlier). But also, ENTJ's are the ones who are [i]really[i] vocal in classes of all kinds.

In a nutshell; we [i]need[i] to go where the action is. Not much more too it I think. Hope that helps!


#6

Dr. Dark,

You seem to have more energy than most of us, perhaps this is because you have many ENTJ friends (a rare feat). What is it like when you all get together?

I would say that most of that is good advice, but I have a major discrepancy regarding being the loud one in a group.
If you are looking for the loud one in a group, BEWARE! ESTJs and ESFPs are also "the loud ones," but ESFPs I believe are more well liked (it seems that people gravitate to them in higher numbers).

Be ready for a ride if you end up dating an ESFP; I've done it, and from my experience it was not good at all. They are extremely irrational, sensitive people that hate criticism... but they are very fun. Their sensitivity mixed with our intensity is not a good match. So, beware the loud one at parties unless they are talking about something meaningful.

Welcome to the forum Dr. Dark, glad to have you.

-Tachyon


#7

Actually, this is not necessarily true if one is really an ENTJ. Here's a great Conceptualist (NT) description and it fits me (ENTJ) to the T. "Conceptualists do not care to spend much of their time or energy making social connections...dating for Conceptualists is a sometimes difficult search for a person they deem worthy of their personal investment". BTW, the ENTJ moves on as soon as he/she masters a subject area.

For NTs, "work is work and play is work". I have zero interest in parties or gatherings, unless there is a specific point in the demands placed on my time. I do love interacting with people, thus I've actually made a point to deliberately shaped my career such that I attend parties/events/gatherings as a consequence etc. However, most people I meet are horribly monotonous and I'd never attend gatherings if it weren't for my career or areas of passion.

Here's the key: Conceptualists communicate abstractly. Out of 10,000 people that I routinely meet, I may only meet a dozen that can hold an abstract conversation with me. I can count on one hand the number of girls that intrigued me in every way from the get go, and the connection was effortless and intense.

This is the best site I've ever found on Briggs Meyers descriptions.
davidmarkley.com/personality ... tm#NTIntro

I mean...many of my friends are ENTJ's. They (like me) tend to be attracted to the parties, the big gatherings and whatnot (as said earlier). But also, ENTJ's are the ones who are [i]really[i] vocal in classes of all kinds.

I agree. Shopping Malls and Stores don't hold our interest because we go in there knowing what we want. You'd me most likely to find ENTJs in places where they can do something productive to their end for a long period of time. School, I believe is a good option. College courses that have a high percentage of males, or a quota... Like you'd be more likely to find me taking a nursing course, since it's challenging and I'm slightly ambitious. If not school, then... In a social scene I'd look at... perhaps a bar or club. ENTJs are more likely to be the "life of the party." As in, they'll be the ones who bring a couple friends, and try to get them to dance and do belly-shots. They probably won't be the center of attention at the club as a whole, but among their friends, you might find that they're the most active. At least that's the case for me. It could be that all my friends are just downers and dead-beats, but only time will tell!


#8

I think I've met a suitable ENTJ, but I had to go to church to do it! Honestly, I've barely talked to the man, as we've only met once while I was doing my homework at a pumpkin-carving activity (though I do expect to talk to him much in the coming days). I can't be 100% certain that he really is an ENTJ, but I'm pretty damn sure. He had no problem approaching me and he seems very confident and showy, which is perfect. A real busy body. Oh, and he's very mature, which is absolutely refreshing. I just haven't had a real conversation with him yet, as he graciously - and to my dismay - let me get back to my homework; (totally my fault, as I had just explained how I needed to focus on such a subject as Chemistry). I just hope to get to know him better.


#9

Toastmasters. That’s MY hot tip. TM clubs are chock-a-block with men who like to lead.


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#11

I would say you could go to a steakhouse / something of higher taste for a happy hour. A dive bar with $1 bud lights doesn’t strike me as a place I would find a guy with real potential. I would like a guy that appreciates quality (doesnt mean they need to spend a lot of money)


#12

At work - in a technology company for example.
At my workplace there is an accumulation of rationals - ENTJs as well, of course.


#13

We attract the most amount of attention. Should not be hard to find us at all.
Do you honestly think that we only hang out in certain places? Of course you don’t. You’re smart. Your thread should be titled “I want to meet an ENTJ man (because their type KICKS ASS!) but I can’t seem to find any IRL.”

Answer: We can be found anywhere.

Look for people shouting to their friends from a foot away, cussing with no care as to who is listening, even despite little babies present. The second part may pertain only to me though - I just can’t justify not having fun (holding my tounge) because some retarded fucking baby raised by his/her retarded fucking mother is offended by a WORD which their kids will learn in due time anyhow, if not already heard at home.

In fact, if we do not empower these words “LITTLE JOHNNY, DONT SAY WHAT YOUR FATHER JUST SAID! DONT SAY WHAT THAT RANDOM TEENAGER SAID TO HIS FRIEND” the kid would not process the word as significant and thus would not derive the thrill from saying it. But of course, people are too moronic to see this, tell their kids not to say certain words, and then get upset when the kid says it.

So I continue saying it, and although I may be the dick, they are the ones at fault for empowering this arbitrary word. And I derive LULZ from the irony.

So yes. The ENTJ’s that you’d actually be attracted to will be very noticeable. It’s the pussy ENTJ’s that you would need to search for (probably the one mentioned in your OP) in which case fuck it right? You don’t want a pussy for a man. We love INTPs AS-IS, meaning, don’t try to impress us as AT ALL. Approach us with who you are and you are guaranteed set as your social skills are excellent compliments to ours. Just listen to our retardation and you’re set. Chime in occasionally too with your insights cause you guys are the only type capable of directly teaching us things.